Why I Chose Men Who Hurt and Abandoned Me

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“They say that abandonment is a wound that never heals. I say only that an abandoned child never forgets.” ~Mario Balotelli

Loss is never an easy experience. However, it is a part of life, so we need to accept it and find ways to cope with it in order to keep moving forward.

Whether someone dies or chooses to end a relationship, loss hurts and can leave us feeling abandoned and potentially leave deep wounds and scars.

I recently read something that suggested abandonment is a type of trauma, and it can cause symptoms similar to PTSD when the abandonment issues from our past are triggered in the present. When those emotions are triggered, we go into fight-or-flight mode.

I experienced a great deal of loss early in my life, and it created issues around abandonment, trust, a…

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“They say that abandonment is a wound that never heals. I say only that an abandoned child never forgets.” ~Mario Balotelli

Loss is never an easy experience. However, it is a part of life, so we need to accept it and find ways to cope with it in order to keep moving forward.

Whether someone dies or chooses to end a relationship, loss hurts and can leave us feeling abandoned and potentially leave deep wounds and scars.

I recently read something that suggested abandonment is a type of trauma, and it can cause symptoms similar to PTSD when the abandonment issues from our past are triggered in the present. When those emotions are triggered, we go into fight-or-flight mode.

I experienced a great deal of loss early in my life, and it created issues around abandonment, trust, a…

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