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“What if pain—like love—is just a place brave people visit?” ~Glennon Doyle
It’s one of life’s greatest paradoxes: When life is easy, everything seems easy. When life is hard, everything seems hard.
This one keeps coming back to me and I keep trying to figure it out. Why do we end up in these spirals of “all good” or “all bad”? How can we get out of the “all bad” faster next time we get trapped? How can we help ourselves get out of there?
I’ve had periods in my life when all seemed lost. When I haven’t been able to fathom ever getting out of bed with ease again. When I’ve thought my current situation would go on forever or I’ve been convinced that suffering was my destiny.
My struggles have often been linked to physical illness. With six different autoimmune diagnoses, I truly felt my life was over. Before even turning thirty years old my life prognosis was far from optimistic.
I call this period, and others like it, the black hole. I managed to get out of there at that time via some major lifestyle changes, involving my body, mind, and spirit.
But I’ve also realized that, most of the time, it’s the internal, silent struggle that challenges us the most. And, sure, I’ve visited there again in the recent five years, a…
Source http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/tinybuddha/~3/2rK1AlI-AG4/
“What if pain—like love—is just a place brave people visit?” ~Glennon Doyle
It’s one of life’s greatest paradoxes: When life is easy, everything seems easy. When life is hard, everything seems hard.
This one keeps coming back to me and I keep trying to figure it out. Why do we end up in these spirals of “all good” or “all bad”? How can we get out of the “all bad” faster next time we get trapped? How can we help ourselves get out of there?
I’ve had periods in my life when all seemed lost. When I haven’t been able to fathom ever getting out of bed with ease again. When I’ve thought my current situation would go on forever or I’ve been convinced that suffering was my destiny.
My struggles have often been linked to physical illness. With six different autoimmune diagnoses, I truly felt my life was over. Before even turning thirty years old my life prognosis was far from optimistic.
I call this period, and others like it, the black hole. I managed to get out of there at that time via some major lifestyle changes, involving my body, mind, and spirit.
But I’ve also realized that, most of the time, it’s the internal, silent struggle that challenges us the most. And, sure, I’ve visited there again in the recent five years, a…
Source http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/tinybuddha/~3/qJ_6Kof026I/
“Never put the key to your happiness in someone else’s pocket.” ~Unknown
It was Saturday night. I sat, at my breakfast bar in my apartment, alone and in semi-darkness. Only one small lamp was turned on in the corner.
I was fuming, confused, and most of all, sad. I sprang off the breakfast barstool and began to pace. There were so many emotions circling around in me I had to keep moving in an effort to release them.
I spun around and looked at the clock above my kitchen—it was almost 7pm! He had said he was going to be there by 6pm.
Why was he not there? Did he not know I was depending on him? Didn’t he know I had planned my schedule to be there in time to hang out?
I didn’t have any other plans and felt stuck waiting in limbo. Where was he? I felt the emotions rising toward my throat as they bubbled up and threatened to explode.
I picked up my phone and called my boyfriend, trembling with frustration as the phone rang. He picked up on the third ring.
I had been waiting to hang out with him after work all day. I had imagined us meeting on time at 6pm and having a great evening together.
In my head, I had imagined us going out for a bite to eat and then maybe catching a new movie at the theatre or going t…
Source http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/tinybuddha/~3/qJ_6Kof026I/
“Never put the key to your happiness in someone else’s pocket.” ~Unknown
It was Saturday night. I sat, at my breakfast bar in my apartment, alone and in semi-darkness. Only one small lamp was turned on in the corner.
I was fuming, confused, and most of all, sad. I sprang off the breakfast barstool and began to pace. There were so many emotions circling around in me I had to keep moving in an effort to release them.
I spun around and looked at the clock above my kitchen—it was almost 7pm! He had said he was going to be there by 6pm.
Why was he not there? Did he not know I was depending on him? Didn’t he know I had planned my schedule to be there in time to hang out?
I didn’t have any other plans and felt stuck waiting in limbo. Where was he? I felt the emotions rising toward my throat as they bubbled up and threatened to explode.
I picked up my phone and called my boyfriend, trembling with frustration as the phone rang. He picked up on the third ring.
I had been waiting to hang out with him after work all day. I had imagined us meeting on time at 6pm and having a great evening together.
In my head, I had imagined us going out for a bite to eat and then maybe catching a new movie at the theatre or going t…
Source https://www.npr.org/sections/thesalt/2018/01/04/575345282/shellfish-industry-scientists-wrestle-with-potentially-deadly-toxic-algae-bloom?utm_medium=RSS&utm_campaign=thesalt
After decades with no sign of a lethal neurotoxin, the algae that produces it is now plaguing the warming waters of the Gulf of Maine, forcing unprecedented closures in shellfish harvesting.
(Image credit: Fred Bever/Maine Public Radio)
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Source https://www.npr.org/sections/thesalt/2018/01/04/575345282/shellfish-industry-scientists-wrestle-with-potentially-deadly-toxic-algae-bloom?utm_medium=RSS&utm_campaign=thesalt
After decades with no sign of a lethal neurotoxin, the algae that produces it is now plaguing the warming waters of the Gulf of Maine, forcing unprecedented closures in shellfish harvesting.
(Image credit: Fred Bever/Maine Public Radio)
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Source https://www.npr.org/sections/thesalt/2018/01/05/575737940/u-s-bakeries-grab-a-slice-of-a-latin-american-tradition-3-kings-cake?utm_medium=RSS&utm_campaign=thesalt
In some Latin American countries, Three Kings Day — Jan. 6 — is a bigger deal than Christmas. As the U.S. Latino population grows, so does interest in the holiday’s signature cake, rosca de reyes.
(Image credit: Jam Media/CON/LatinContent/Getty Images)
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Source https://www.npr.org/sections/thesalt/2018/01/05/575737940/u-s-bakeries-grab-a-slice-of-a-latin-american-tradition-3-kings-cake?utm_medium=RSS&utm_campaign=thesalt
In some Latin American countries, Three Kings Day — Jan. 6 — is a bigger deal than Christmas. As the U.S. Latino population grows, so does interest in the holiday’s signature cake, rosca de reyes.
(Image credit: Jam Media/CON/LatinContent/Getty Images)
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Source: https://www.aarp.org/health/health-insurance/info-2018/tricare-changes-fd.html
by Brittany Hackett, AARP, January 3, 2018|Comments: 0. TRICARE changes
you need to know about. Jose Luis Pelaez Inc/Getty Images. Tricare beneficiaries
include 2.2 million retired service members and 1.4 million active duty service
members. Big changes are here for Tricare, the military’s health care program for
……
Source: https://www.aarp.org/health/health-insurance/info-2018/tricare-changes-fd.html
by Brittany Hackett, AARP, January 3, 2018|Comments: 0. TRICARE changes
you need to know about. Jose Luis Pelaez Inc/Getty Images. Tricare beneficiaries
include 2.2 million retired service members and 1.4 million active duty service
members. Big changes are here for Tricare, the military’s health care program for
……